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The power of softness

6-week online program - May 2026

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The Power of Softness

A 6-week online program for those ready to come home to themselves and explore a new way of being in the world… a softer way to success.


You are accomplished. Capable. Driven. And somewhere underneath all of that, quietly and persistently, something doesn't feel quite right. You know there's more...


The sense that you are performing a version of yourself you've outgrown. The suspicion that the next achievement won't fix it either, because the last ten didn't.


Maybe you:


  • have hit financial success, and yet you wake up in the morning and think, is this it?
  • feel trapped by a success that brings security and comfort, but you dread Monday mornings
  • look at other areas of your life and realise you're not fully in it, that you're paying a price and that suddenly no longer feels good, the price is too high
  • started out doing what you loved, but somewhere along the way, the joy has gone


You have been taught that the answer is more. More thinking, working it out, learning, and discipline. More strategy. More force.


What if, the answer is the opposite of that?


What if, you've been pushing your whole life, and that's exactly what's keeping you stuck?


What if, you're not failing. You're not ungrateful. You haven't made wrong choices. 


You've simply reached the ceiling of what force can build.

Striving & pushing can only only take you so far, softness will take you the rest of the way...

Softness is powerful. 


Not soft in the way the world has taught you to fear. Not passive. Not small. Not a retreat from ambition.


Water doesn't force its way to the sea. It yields, flows, finds the path — and given enough time, shapes mountains. The finest surgeons in the world operate with completely soft hands. The greatest leaders don't lead through force. They lead through presence.


The world taught you that softness was weakness - something to overcome on the way to success, something the truly serious and truly ambitious had learned to leave behind.


What we have discovered, and what we have watched transform the lives of leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives across industries and continents, is the opposite of that:


Over six weeks, you will engage in practical, embodied practices that explore the Power of Softness through the lens of physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual as not only a profoundly powerful creative tool, but a principle to live by.


Imagine relationships feeling real again, work feeling meaningful, and you are  genuinely connecting to what matters. Your sense of yourself is restored  and you have a quiet, unshakeable knowing of who you are, what you value and what you are here for.


This is not a smaller life. It is not less ambitious, less driven, less successful. It is all of those things, and more, from a completely different place inside yourself.

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What our participants say changes in 6 weeks

You lead differently

You’re more present. And the people who matter to you  - your team, your clients, your family - feel the difference.

You become less reactive

You pause before you reply to the email that would have sent you straight to the keyboard. You choose your response instead of firing off your reaction. Small moment. Enormous difference.

You make better decisions

Not after agonising for weeks. Not by running it past everyone you know. You know what you think. You trust it. You move.

Life feels more spacious

 You notice things you were too busy to notice before. The light in the room. How you actually feel about something. What someone is really saying. You’re more here.

You have a practice that’s yours for life

When it gets hard again you know how to find your way back. Not to a program. To yourself..

The power of softness - £250

6 Online Live Sessions

6 Online Live Sessions

6 Online Live Sessions


Each session weaves together reflection, guided practice and practical integration.


Starting Tuesday 12th May

11.20m UK OR 7.30pm UK 

Softness Practice

6 Online Live Sessions

6 Online Live Sessions


Between sessions, a daily softness practice lands in your inbox. 

Community & Connection

6 Online Live Sessions

Community & Connection


A private WhatsApp group holds the community throughout the program.

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our story

Ellen & Paula

Both with over twenty years of coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.


This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.


The Softness Revolution was born.

a softer way to success...

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Session 1: Tues May 12th 11.30am-1pm UK

Session 1: Tues May 12th 11.30am-1pm UK

Session 1: Tues May 12th 11.30am-1pm UK

Starting May 12th for 6 weeks


UK: 11.30am-1pm

US Central: 5.30am-7am

Sydney, Australia: 10.30pm-midnight

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Session 2: Tues May 12th 7.30pm-9pm UK

Session 1: Tues May 12th 11.30am-1pm UK

Session 1: Tues May 12th 11.30am-1pm UK

Starting May 12th for 6 weeks


UK: 7.30pm-9pm

US Central: 1.30pm-9pm


Starting May 13th

Sydney, Australia: 6.30am-8am

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"We believe that your inner Softness isn't a weakness to suppress, but a superpower that will revolutionise how you live and create"


Ellen Coomber & Paula Jones

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Do you want to ....

Lead differently?

Be more present. And the people who matter to you  - your team, your clients, your family - feel the difference.

Be less reactive?

Choose your response instead of firing off your reaction. Pause before you send the email you know you'll regret.  Small moments. Enormous difference.

Make better decisions?

Stop agonising for weeks of overthinking and running it past everyone you know. You know what you think. You trust it. You move.

More spaciousness?

Notice things you were too busy to notice before. The light in the room. How you actually feel about something. What someone is really saying. You’re more here.

Have a practice that’s yours for life?

When it gets hard again you know how to find your way back. Not to a program. To yourself..

a softer way to success...

join the power of softeness

Striving will only take you so far, Softness will take you the rest of the way ...

join the power of softness

Imagine creating success and being ..

The real you, present, alive, at ease in your own skin and genuinely at home in your own life. A life worth celebrating. Fully. Joyfully. Without apology.


Imagine leading without the constant weight of performance. Creating without the friction of forcing. Succeeding and actually feeling it land. Not ticking it off. Not moving immediately to the next thing. Actually receiving it, deeply and truly, as evidence of who you are and what you are capable of.


Imagine the relationships in your life feeling real again. Your work feeling meaningful  not just important, not just lucrative, but genuinely connected to something that matters to you. Your sense of yourself restored - that quiet, unshakeable knowing of who you are, what you value and what you are here for, steady and clear beneath everything else.


This is not a smaller life. It is not less ambitious, less driven, less successful. It is all of those things, and more, and from a completely different place inside yourself.

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