
Ellen Coomber & Paula Jones
You've worked hard, proved yourself, arrived, but somewhere on the journey, you lost part of yourself.
Outwardly successful. And yet...
You’re not failing.
You’ve simply reached the ceiling of what force can build.
The Softness Revolution exists for this moment. The moment you're done striving and forcing and are ready to actually live.
Not less success. A different kind. The kind that finally feels like yours.
And yet...
Softness is the path to sustainable, joy-filled success.
The world taught you that Softness was weakness, something to overcome on the way to success.
However, we've watched Softness transform the lives of leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives across industries and continents and have discovered that Softness is the opposite of that.
Softness is the most powerful tool we have for creation.
Softness is the bridge between success that is exhausting and success that is energising. Between the life that looks right and the life that feels right. Between the version of yourself you've been performing and the one you actually are.
That's the Softness Revolution.
From your first taste of Softness to a full five-day immersion in Colorado, or diving into our twelve month program explore what’s right for you….

a 6-week live online program
Slow down, come home to yourself.
Explore the power of Softness, one that creates space to pause, receive clarity and deep wisdom. One that supports you to respond rather than react. One that reconnects you to yourself.
Starts 12th May 2026
a 5-night retreat
Slow down. Go inward. Leave different.
An immersive experience of living from Softness and exploring the core Softness Revolution principles of Spirit, Space and Structure & Softness.
Colorado, USA
28th Sept – 3rd Oct 2026
Year-long Group Program or 1-1 Mentoring
For those ready to go deep and change the the way you live, love, lead and succeed.
This is where we explore the power of creating success through the core principles of the Softness Revolution, Spirit, Space, Softness and Structure.
Quarterly start dates

Both with over twenty years experience in coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman and martial artist, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.
This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.
The Softness Revolution was born.
Everything we teach is built on four interconnected principles, developed and evolved through our own journeys and our work in leaders.


The deep inner knowing that is always present. When we learn to be guided by our own resonance of truth rather than the noise of expectation, we find a clearer, more certain path.

The pause that changes everything. Internal and external. Only in Space are we present enough to hear the subtle whisper of our own wisdom.

The backbone of creativity. The right structures don’t constrain, they liberate. Structure gives form to intention and is essential to unlocking the potential of the softer way

Not weakness. The most powerful force available to us. When we stop forcing and start allowing, transformation becomes inevitable