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You’ve succeeded. You’re not happy. You know there’s more...

You've worked hard, proved yourself, arrived, but somewhere on the journey, you lost part of yourself.

Outwardly successful. And yet...

you wake up feeling that there must be more to life than this
the business that once brought you joy feels heavy
you know there's beauty all around you but you're too busy to appreciate it
you want to go to the next level but if you keep up this pace it'll kill you.

You’re not failing.

You’ve simply reached the ceiling of what force can build.

The Softness Revolution exists for this moment. The moment you're done striving and forcing and are ready to actually live.

Not less success. A different kind. The kind that finally feels like yours.

Imagine reaching a new level of success

And yet...

waking up excited for the day ahead
taking the weekend to be with loved ones rather than get on top of work
present and free to enjoy the moment and learn from it's wisdom
being full of joy for where you are and inspired by where you're going

Softness is the path to sustainable, joy-filled success.

The world taught you that Softness was weakness, something to overcome on the way to success.

However, we've watched Softness transform the lives of leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives across industries and continents and have discovered that Softness is the opposite of weakness.

Softness is the state of being fully awake and available, using only the effort that is actually required.

Imagine what is available to us when we quit wasting so much energy - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually ..... Imagine how you could more richly live, love, lead and succeed...

Softness is the most powerful tool we have for creation.

Softness is the bridge between success that is exhausting and success that is energising. Between the life that looks right and the life that feels right. Between the version of yourself you've been performing and the one you actually are.

That's the Softness Revolution.

The Power of Softness

The Way of Spirit

a 6-week live online program

Slow down, come home to yourself.

Explore the power of Softness, and experience being awake and available, using only as much effort as is needed. Pause, receive clarity and wisdom to start responding rather than reacting to life.

Starts 12th May 2026

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The Way of Spirit

a 7-night retreat

Slow down. Go inward. Leave different.

An immersive experience of living from Softness and exploring the core Softness Revolution principles of Spirit, Space, Structure & Softness.

Colorado, USA

28th Sept – 3rd Oct 2026

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Leading from Softness

The Way of Spirit

Leading from Softness

a 3-night retreat

Go deep. Lead differently.

The most powerful leaders aren’t the ones pushing hardest. Here’s the softer, more effective way.

with bespoke options for teams

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The Space

The Space for Coaches

for leaders, founders & entrepreneurs

You know there’s more. Here’s where it becomes yours.

A year-long group for those ready to go all the way in. Held, championed, and stretched beyond what once seemed possible.

three intakes per year

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The Space for Coaches

for established coaches

You can only take your clients as far as you’ve gone yourself. Here’s your chance to go further.

A year-long group for coaches who know the value of doing your own deepest work - to expand your business, and take every client you hold deeper too.

three intakes per year

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Our Story

Ellen & Paula

Both with over twenty years experience in coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman and martial artist, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.

This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.

The Softness Revolution was born.

Five Principles. One revolution

Spirit

Structure

Spirit

The deep inner knowing that is always present. When we learn to be guided by our own resonance of truth rather than the noise of expectation, we find a clearer, more certain path.

Space

Structure

Spirit

The pause that changes everything. Internal and external. Only in Space are we present enough to hear the subtle whisper of our own wisdom.

Structure

The backbone of creativity. The right structures don’t constrain, they liberate. Structure gives form to intention and is essential to unlocking the potential of the softer way

Synergy

Softness

Structure

We are inherently relational. In synergy with others a quiet intelligence emerges that multiplies what we bring, making the impossible suddenly possible.

Softness

Not weakness. The most powerful force available to us. When we stop forcing and start allowing, transformation becomes inevitable

"In a world that often celebrates pushing and striving, we believe in something different. We believe Softness is the most powerful force for real, sustainable growth."

Striving can only take you so far, Softness will take you the rest of the way...

You’ve succeeded. You’re not happy. You know there’s more...

There is a softer way to success...

Imagine reaching a new level of success

Your path to a softer way to success ...

The Power of Softness

The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit

Leading from Softness

The Way of Spirit

Leading from Softness

The Space

The Space

The Space for Coaches

The Space for Coaches

The Space for Coaches

The Space for Coaches

The Space for Coaches

Our Story

Ellen & Paula

The Principles of the Softness Revolution

Five Principles. One revolution

Spirit

Structure

Spirit

Space

Structure

Spirit

Structure

Structure

Structure

Synergy

Softness

Structure

Softness

Softness

Softness

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