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"In a world that often celebrates pushing and striving, we believe in something different. We believe Softness is the most powerful force for real, sustainable growth."


Ellen Coomber & Paula Jones

Striving will only take you so far, Softness will take you the rest of the way...

You’ve succeeded. You’re not happy. You know there’s more...

You've worked hard, proved yourself, arrived, but somewhere on the journey, you lost part of yourself.


Outwardly successful. And yet...


  • you wake up feeling that there must be more to life than this 
  • the business that once brought you joy feels heavy
  • you know there's beauty all around you but you're too busy to appreciate it 
  • you want to go to the next level but if you keep up this pace it'll kill you.

 

You’re not failing. 


You’ve simply reached the ceiling of what force can build. 


The Softness Revolution exists for this moment. The moment you're done striving and forcing and are ready to actually live.


Not less success. A different kind. The kind that finally feels like yours. 

There is a softer way to success...

Imagine reaching a new level of success

And yet...


  • waking up excited for the day ahead
  • taking the weekend to be with loved ones rather than get on top of work
  • present and free to enjoy the moment and learn from it's wisdom
  • being full of joy for where you are and inspired by where you're going 


Softness is the path to sustainable, joy-filled success.


The world taught you that Softness was weakness, something to overcome on the way to success.  


However, we've watched Softness transform the lives of leaders, entrepreneurs, and creatives across industries and continents and have discovered that Softness is the opposite of that.


Softness is the most powerful tool we have for creation.


Softness is the bridge between success that is exhausting and success that is energising. Between the life that looks right and the life that feels right. Between the version of yourself you've been performing and the one you actually are.


That's the Softness Revolution.

Your path to a softer way to success ...

From your first taste of Softness to a full five-day immersion in Colorado, or diving into our twelve month program explore what’s right for you….

The programs

The Power of Softness

The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit



a 6-week live online program


Slow down, come home to yourself.


Explore the power of Softness, one that creates space to pause, receive clarity and deep wisdom. One that supports you to respond rather than react. One that reconnects you to yourself.


  

 Starts 12th May 2026

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The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit

The Way of Spirit


 

a 5-night retreat


Slow down. Go inward. Leave different.


An immersive experience of living from Softness and exploring the core Softness Revolution principles of Spirit, Space and Structure & Softness.


Colorado, USA


28th Sept – 3rd Oct 2026

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The Softness Revolution

The Way of Spirit

The Softness Revolution

 


Year-long Group Program or 1-1 Mentoring


For those ready to go deep and change the the way you live, love, lead and succeed.


This is where we explore the power of creating success through the core principles of the Softness Revolution, Spirit, Space, Softness and Structure.



Quarterly start dates

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Our Story

Ellen & Paula

Both with over twenty years experience in coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman and martial artist, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.


This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.


The Softness Revolution was born.

The Principles of the Softness Revolution

Everything we teach is built on four interconnected principles, developed and evolved through our own journeys and our work in leaders. 

Four principles. One revolution

Spirit

Structure

Spirit

The deep inner knowing that is always present. When we learn to be guided by our own resonance of truth rather than the noise of expectation, we find a clearer, more certain path.


Space

Structure

Spirit

The pause that changes everything. Internal and external. Only in Space are we present enough to hear the subtle whisper of our own wisdom.

Structure

Structure

Structure

The backbone of creativity. The right structures don’t constrain, they liberate. Structure gives form to intention and is essential to unlocking the potential of the softer way

Softness

Structure

Structure

Not weakness. The most powerful force available to us. When we stop forcing and start allowing, transformation becomes inevitable

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