Striving will only take you so far, Softness will take you the rest of the way ...
The Power of Softness
You are accomplished. Capable. Driven. And somewhere underneath all of that, quietly and persistently, something doesn't feel quite right. You know there's more...
The sense that you are living a version of yourself you've outgrown. The suspicion that the next achievement won't give you what you want either...
Maybe you:
- are outwardly successful, and yet you wake up in the morning and think, is this it?
- started out doing what you loved, but somewhere along the way, the joy has gone
- feel trapped by a success that brings security and comfort, but you're dreading that next meeting
- look at other areas of your life and realise you're not fully in it, and suddenly that no longer feels good, the price you're paying is too high
You have been taught that the answer lies in working harder, working everything out, pushing through.
What if, the answer is the opposite of that?
What if, you've been pushing your whole life, and that's exactly what's keeping you stuck?
What if, you're not failing. You're not ungrateful. You haven't made wrong choices.
You've simply reached the ceiling of what force can build.
Imagine waking up to a new level of success AND feeling like yourself again
What can change over 6 weeks..... Imagine...
feeling more spacious
feeling more spacious
feeling more spacious
You have more space and yet you get to where you're going faster and with way less effort . You experience the beauty of the world around you.
being more present
feeling more spacious
feeling more spacious
You're in a conversation and you actually hear what is being said. You're playing with your children and you're actually with them. You notice the little things, and the people who matter feel the difference
being less reactive
feeling more spacious
being more connected to yourself
You pause before you reply. You don't send the email you know you'll regret. Small moments. Wiser choices. Enormous difference.
being more connected to yourself
being more connected to your inner wisdom
being more connected to yourself
You feel alive and inspired by your own life. You're less in your head and more in your body. You experience the difference.
being more connected to your inner wisdom
being more connected to your inner wisdom
being more connected to your inner wisdom
You know what you think. You trust it. You move. No longer running questions past everyone - the answers come from somewhere quieter and more certain.
being able to come home to yourself
being more connected to your inner wisdom
being more connected to your inner wisdom
When it gets hard, you know how to find your way back. Not to a program. To a practice. To the sense of yourself restored. Alive.
the real you .... a life worth celebrating
Softness is the path to this...
Not soft in the way we were taught was weak. Real Softness is not passive. It's not small, not ineffective. It's not a retreat from ambition.
What we have discovered is that Softness is where your true strength lies. It is the path to the deepest, most aligned, most powerful version of success you have ever known.
Softness is the felt sense of being awake, fully available for life, using just the effort that is actually required.
Over six weeks, this online program will demonstrate the Power of Softness.
Exploring Softness through the lenses of the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual, you will discover Softness not only as a profoundly powerful creative tool, but a principle to live by.
We invite you to come and join us...
The power of softness
6 Online Live Sessions*
6 Online Live Sessions*
6 Online Live Sessions*
We meet over Zoom every week for six weeks
Each session weaves together reflection, guided practice and practical integration.
Starting Tuesday 12th May
11.30am UK OR 7.30pm UK
*Replays available for participants
Softness Practice
6 Online Live Sessions*
6 Online Live Sessions*
Between sessions, a daily softness practice lands in your inbox.
Simple, doable and quietly transformative, working across the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual dimensions of Softness.
Community & Connection
6 Online Live Sessions*
Community & Connection
A private group holds the community throughout the program.
A space of connection, insight and reflection with those on the journey with you.
£250
Choose Your Session Time
Our story
Ellen & Paula
Both with over twenty years of coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.
This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.
The Softness Revolution was born.
What our participants say ...
Sherin - South Africa
"I attended The Power of Softness course with Ellen and Paula, and it was a truly profound experience. We explored the mental, physical, and spiritual aspects of ourselves and discovered how differently life unfolds when we approach it with softness instead of rushing, forcing, or trying to control everything.
The daily practices reminded me to slow down, even during the simplest moments, like making my morning coffee. I found myself becoming more present in my interactions with people. I spoke more from my heart, listened more deeply without feeling the need to interrupt, and felt genuinely engaged in each conversation.
I work with a team of people, and I've noticed a remarkable shift. They are far more willing to do what I ask because of the way I communicate with softness, respect, and clarity. I can still be firm, but there's no longer a need to push or force. The difference has been incredible.
This course has been a beautiful and transformative experience. I will continue using these tools every day, staying aware of the subtle yet powerful changes within myself and in the world around me.
Thank you, Ellen and Paula, for creating such a meaningful and life changing experience."
Thea - UK
"Don’t be fooled by the name; Softness is a super power. Softness is both feel good and practical. You want strength? Soften. Deeper connections and relationships? Approach them through softness. Clarity of intention and vision are supercharged by softness. Having embraced many aspects of embodiment, the power of Softness has added an impressive and accessible new aspect to my practice.
Paula and Ellen are a great team, they bring expertise, structural rigour and a light and accessible touch to the sessions. They also bring together remarkable people with whom it’s a pleasure to work."
Bahar - Australia
"Through Softness I’m having deeper conversations and interactions in life. I’ve realised Softness is more than I think it is. It’s a recognition of the greater aspects of myself and my place in the world."
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"We believe that your inner Softness isn't a weakness to suppress, but a superpower that will revolutionise how you live, love, lead and succeed..."
Ellen Coomber & Paula Jones