You are accomplished. Capable. Driven. And somewhere underneath all of that, quietly and persistently, something doesn't feel quite right. You know there's more...
The sense that you are living a version of yourself you've outgrown. The suspicion that the next achievement won't give you what you want either...
Maybe you:
You have been taught that the answer lies in working harder, working everything out, pushing through.
What if, the answer is the opposite of that?
What if, you've been pushing your whole life, and that's exactly what's keeping you stuck?
What if, you're not failing. You're not ungrateful. You haven't made wrong choices.
You've simply reached the ceiling of what force can build.
You have more space and yet you get to where you're going faster and with way less effort . You experience the beauty of the world around you.
You're in a conversation and you actually hear what is being said. You're playing with your children and you're actually with them. You notice the little things, and the people who matter feel the difference
You pause before you reply. You don't send the email you know you'll regret. Small moments. Wiser choices. Enormous difference.
You feel alive and inspired by your own life. You're less in your head and more in your body. You experience the difference.
You know what you think. You trust it. You move. No longer running questions past everyone - the answers come from somewhere quieter and more certain.
When it gets hard, you know how to find your way back. Not to a program. To a practice. To the sense of yourself restored. Alive.
Not soft in the way we were taught was weak. Real Softness is not passive. It's not small, not ineffective. It's not a retreat from ambition.
What we have discovered is that Softness is where your true strength lies. It is the path to the deepest, most aligned, most powerful version of success you have ever known.
Over six weeks, this online program will demonstrate the Power of Softness.
Exploring Softness through the lenses of the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual, you will discover Softness not only as a profoundly powerful creative tool, but a principle to live by.
We invite you to come and join us...
We meet over Zoom every week for six weeks
Each session weaves together reflection, guided practice and practical integration.
Starting Tuesday 12th May
11.30am UK OR 7.30pm UK
*Replays available for participants
Between sessions, a daily softness practice lands in your inbox.
Simple, doable and quietly transformative, working across the physical, emotional, mental and spiritual dimensions of Softness.
A private WhatsApp group holds the community throughout the program.
A space of connection, insight and reflection with those on the journey with you.

Both with over twenty years of coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.
This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.
The Softness Revolution was born.

Ellen Coomber & Paula Jones