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A softer way to success...

This retreat is not for someone who is failing.


It’s for those who have succeeded and know, quietly and persistently, that there is more.


More depth. More aliveness. More of themselves available than the version currently showing up.


Someone who is ready to stop proving and start arriving.


Ready to come home to themselves, perhaps for the first time in a very long time.

Ready to experience the Way of Spirit?

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The Way of Spirit 2026

Check out what our participants say about the way of spirit retreat...

The retreat experience

Five days in the Colorado foothills, a place of extraordinary natural beauty and deep, quiet power where you will have the opportunity to pause and take a deep breath. Through the principles of Spirit, Space, Softness & Structure, explore a new paradigm for living.


Not a conference. Not a workshop. Not content to consume.


An experience. An immersion. A genuine invitation to slow down, go inward, and discover what becomes possible when you stop forcing and start allowing.


What You Will Experience:


In the dojo

Through Softness experiences, feel in your body what it means to move from Softness and take home with you a new physical power born from softening rather than forcing.


With the horses

In the presence of these extraordinary, intuitive beings, experience deeper awareness and connection with yourself and others. No experience with horses needed or expected.


In the learning

Guided practices, reflection and sharing that create the conditions for insights and clarity.


In the spaciousness

Time for yourself. Time to simply be.


In the room

A small group of people who are here for exactly the same reason you are. The conversations and connections are an integral part of the retreat where some of the deepest learnings occur. 

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The retreat ends, the transformation doesn’t

You leave Colorado with something that can’t be packed but you'll feel deeply going forward...

more free

more present

more present

Freedom to finally come home to yourself and experience life beyond the need to be certain, work so hard, be so busy. Free to on discover what's possible....your way of spirit..

more present

more present

more present

Five days away from the noise and something shifts. You're no longer half-elsewhere. What's in front of you , the conversation, the meal, the moment, everything gets your full attention, everyone feels it

clearer

more present

more connected

Quietening the noise, the expectation, the relentless business. What’s left is what’s true. Most people leave knowing something they didn’t let themselves know before and clearer on what actually matters

more connected

your own Softness practice

more connected

You notice more. You’re less reactive. Connected to yourself and others. The things that used to frustrate you may still arise, but they no longer hold you back. You have a different relationship with the voices in your head

more spaciousness

your own Softness practice

your own Softness practice

Time and space, not just in your schedule, but in your thinking, your whole way of moving through the world. Horses and martial artists are right - real power lives in Softness, not tension. Less effort really does produce more.

your own Softness practice

your own Softness practice

your own Softness practice

Softness as a practice rather than a technique to do. A way of being you can return to anywhere, anytime. A lived experience that striving can only get you so far, that Softness will take you the rest of the way. 

The Way of Spirit is not a standalone experience. It is the beginning of a journey and includes...

The retreat experience

Five nourishing nights at the beautiful Happy Dog Horse Sanctuary, Colorado.


The Way of Spirit Retreat - Monday 28th September - Saturday. 3rd October.

The immersion. Everything begins here.


The Power of Softness  - 6-Week Online Program

Begins directly after the retreat. Included in your package. Six weeks of live online sessions with Ellen and Paula that take everything you experienced in Colorado and deepen it into daily practice. The retreat opened the door. This program helps you continue to embed the learning.


Two Follow-Up Webinars

Held in the months after the retreat. Space to share what's shifting, ask what you're noticing, and go deeper into the principles as you're living them.


Two 1:1 Mentoring Calls

One with Ellen. One with Paula. Personal support as you integrate the work into your life, your leadership and your next chapter.


Community

Be part of The Softness Revolution community for ongoing, connection and support with those on the journey with you.

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Your Retreat leaders

Ellen Coomber

Ellen Coomber

Ellen Coomber

I support my clients to create a business and life they don’t need a vacation from, their Lush Life.

Using intuition, structure, and self-mastery, I help clients tap deeper into their joy and create a life of magic and meaning beyond what they think is rationally possible.

Paula Jones

Ellen Coomber

Ellen Coomber

I’m passionate about human behaviour and helping people to create beyond what's possible

Through the principles of spirit, space and structure, I support my clients to access their own richly rewarding inner wisdom and truly shine with their own brilliance in all aspects of work and life. 

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Currently at the 2025 price - £2,500
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