You've worked hard, proved yourself, arrived, but somewhere on the journey, you lost part of yourself.
Outwardly successful. And yet...
You have been taught that the answer is more. More thinking, working it out, learning, and discipline. More strategy. More force.
What if, the answer is the opposite of that?
What if, you've been pushing your whole life, and that's exactly what's keeping you stuck?
What if, you're not failing. You're not ungrateful. You haven't made wrong choices.
You've simply reached the ceiling of what force can build.
Imagine reaching a new level of success and yet…
Softness is the path to this
We’ve been taught that softness is weak and yet it’s the most powerful force with which to create.
Softness is not what the world has taught you to fear. Not passive. Not small. Not a retreat from ambition.
Softness is power that enables you to create space to pause, receive clarity and deep wisdom. One that supports you to respond rather than react. One that reconnects you to yourself.
One that creates success, without the pushing, that allows you the presence to enjoy life.
A softer way to success
Explore this power with us over 6-weeks.
Each session weaves together reflection, guided practice and practical integration.
Starting Tuesday 12th May
11.30m UK OR 7.30pm UK
Sessions are recorded
Between sessions, a daily softness practice lands in your inbox.
You will have the opportunity to experience and embody softness in the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual realms.
A private WhatsApp group holds the community throughout the program.
a space of connection, insight and reflection.

You’re more present. And the people who matter to you - your team, your clients, your family - feel the difference.
You pause before you reply to the email that would have sent you straight to the keyboard. You choose your response instead of firing off your reaction. Small moment. Enormous difference.
Not after agonising for weeks. Not by running it past everyone you know. You know what you think. You trust it. You move.
You notice things you were too busy to notice before. The light in the room. How you actually feel about something. What someone is really saying. You’re more here.
When it gets hard again you know how to find your way back. Not to a program. To yourself..

Both with over twenty years of coaching, mentoring, leadership and retreat facilitation, Ellen & Paula always knew they would work together. But it wasn’t until they were at a 10-day ‘Softness Bootcamp’ with master horseman, Mark Rashid, that it became clear what that was to be. On a dojo mat in Colorado in 2024, they looked at each other and knew.
This wasn’t just about horses. This was leadership. This was a new way of being in the world. For everyone.
The Softness Revolution was born.

Ellen Coomber & Paula Jones