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The Group Program

For those ready to go deep and create sustainable change in the way you live, love, lead & succeed..

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You know there's more ...

Not a vague feeling. A quiet, deepening certainty that the life you're living, as full, as accomplished, as outwardly impressive as it is, is not the full expression of who you are.


You're still showing up, still delivering. Still, by every external measure, succeeding, but the joy, the aliveness, the passion, why is that starting to to feel just like another thing you have to keep chasing?


Maybe the decisions feel heavier than they used to, entangled in the job, the relationships, the life you've created. Energy is less replenishable, and you realise that the price you're paying to always show up as the capable, credible, composed version of you is too much. Somewhere inside, a quieter you is wondering when it gets to feel different.


Or maybe you're in transition. A chapter is ending. You know you're being called somewhere new. You just haven't been able to hear it clearly enough yet through the noise of everything you're leaving behind. And you're questioning whether you're brave enough to meet the challenge.


You've tried things. Read the books, done the courses, taken the holiday. And you come back to the same place.


Because what needs to change isn't your strategy. 


In fact, you may not know what needs to change, you just know there's a different way .... 


 That's why you're here...

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Imagine living, loving, leading and succeeding differently..

Imagine ...

  • decisions coming from somewhere quiet and certain rather than from pressure, expectation or the need to prove
  • your creativity alive and surprising you and leading you somewhere you couldn't have planned
  • the dreams you quietly put on a shelf beginning to move again.
  • feeling as alive at the end of the day as the beginning, 
  • life feeling spacious, with a deep sensed knowing that you have what it takes to make wise choices aligned  with who you are.


This is not about arriving somewhere calm and settled. It is about becoming fully, vibrantly, unapologetically alive to your own possibilities.


It's where the impossible starts to feel available. Not because the obstacles disappeared, but because you stopped being an obstacle to yourself.


Different things call to you. Life expands in ways you can feel but couldn't have predicted. That is the nature of living from Softness rather than from force. Life stops coming at you and starts to come through you. 


Held in an ongoing practice over time, what you get is not a glimpse, not an opening, but a genuine sustained shift. A change that doesn't change back. 


Present, awake, genuinely open to what wants to emerge. This is the impossible expansion of life, and you get to actually feel it. 


A life worth celebrating, not because it's perfect, but because it's finally, completely, unmistakably yours.

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Why a Group Program?

There is something very special that when people come together to do the work that's needed.

There is something special that happens when people are powerfully held in a room, or a space. Something that doesn't happen in a book, a solo practice, or even the best 1:1 coaching.


You see yourself in others. The leader who names exactly what you couldn't find words for. The moment someone shares what they're noticing and you realise, with a sigh of relief, you're not alone in this. This recognition is one of the most powerful forces for change we know.


Softness, by its nature, is relational. As we soften with each other, we appreciate. As we hold space for each other, we develop gratitude and a deep understanding of what it takes to be in relation with others. We practice non-reactivity, presence and truth, not in the abstract, but in the living, breathing reality of being witnessed by human beings who are showing up for exactly the same reason you are.


The group is the practice.


When someone shares a moment of genuine breakthrough, you feel it too. When someone names their resistance honestly, it gives you permission to name yours. When you witness transformation in someone else over weeks and months, you truly understand what's possible for you.


This is a container of mutual practice shaped by Softness, Spirit, Space and Structure, where the collective intelligence, courage and energy of the group becomes one of your greatest resources. You will experience the joy of true connection and championing.


And what makes this container different is that we work with the whole of you. Not just the professional version. Not just the thinking mind with its strategies and goals and action plans. Your body and the tension it carries. Your emotions and the stories wound around them. Your mind and its relentless need to know. And your Spirit, that deeper, wiser, quieter part of you that has always known the way. We create the space for it to come through.


A year matters because real change needs time to land.


Not a glimpse. Not an opening. A genuine, sustained shift that doesn't change back. Time for things to sink in at deeper and deeper levels until they are part of the fabric of your being — no longer something you have to consciously reach for, but something that is simply there, as natural as breathing.


Over the year, you will be seen. You will see others. And in that seeing, something in you will soften that might never have softened alone.


Imagine giving yourself the time and space to create your softer way to living, loving, leading and succeeding

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The Sofness Revolution Group Program

The Details


Quarterly intake 


Limited spaces - application only


Two live sessions per month with Ellen and Paula. 


Masterclasses woven in as the work calls for them. 


Deep dives into the four principles - Spirit, Space, Softness & Structure


A Leading from Softness in-person weekend together. 


The Power of Softness six-week program included for those who haven't done it yet.


Intimate. Structured.


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Your path to a softer way to live, love, lead and succeed...explore the principles

Four principles. One revolution

Spirit

Structure

Spirit

We work with the principle that Spirit knows best. We teach people to be guided and compelled by their own deep, inner resonance of knowing. From this part of ourselves we are able to live freely, knowing that we have arrived, we have come home to ourselves, and we don’t need to run anymore. We learn the we no longer need to strive so har

We work with the principle that Spirit knows best. We teach people to be guided and compelled by their own deep, inner resonance of knowing. From this part of ourselves we are able to live freely, knowing that we have arrived, we have come home to ourselves, and we don’t need to run anymore. We learn the we no longer need to strive so hard at life with ineffectual overdoing and process. Instead, we can choose to allow Spirit to come through us, to be awake, to be alive to the next evolution of our lives.

Space

Structure

Spirit

The principle of Space allows us to be present and able to fully experience our journey through life. It gives us the freedom to fully express ourselves. Space is internal as well as external. It is the practice of pausing, taking a breath, coming home to ourselves. Only then are we present and available to hear the subtle whisper of our 

The principle of Space allows us to be present and able to fully experience our journey through life. It gives us the freedom to fully express ourselves. Space is internal as well as external. It is the practice of pausing, taking a breath, coming home to ourselves. Only then are we present and available to hear the subtle whisper of our ever present, all knowing Spirit. Only then are we able to embrace rather than fear the mystery and beauty of the sacredness of everyday life. 

Structure

Structure

Structure

Structure is the backbone of creativity. It is the creative technology that propels us towards the manifestation of our desired end results. We also have structures within our consciousness which allow us to see what works for us and reveal that part of our psychology that always seems to work against us. Then there are the structures for

Structure is the backbone of creativity. It is the creative technology that propels us towards the manifestation of our desired end results. We also have structures within our consciousness which allow us to see what works for us and reveal that part of our psychology that always seems to work against us. Then there are the structures formed by the people and places in our lives. When we learn to put effective structures in place, we support and accelerate our own growth and our contributions to the world. 

Softness

Structure

Structure

Working with the principle of Softness allows us to explore and fully understand the power and strength that is freely and always available within each of us. Forcing, overthinking and overdoing causes stress and psychological tension. Softening from within creates clarity and joy and enables us to have a direct experience with life. When

Working with the principle of Softness allows us to explore and fully understand the power and strength that is freely and always available within each of us. Forcing, overthinking and overdoing causes stress and psychological tension. Softening from within creates clarity and joy and enables us to have a direct experience with life. When we understand the principle of Softness, our transformation is inevitable and we realise the impact we have, and our ability to make the world a more beautiful place


a softer way to success...

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